Dear Gwenivere,
Today you turn 8 years old. Everyday you are getting bigger, more mature, and more opinionated, so for maybe the first time ever, I have no disbelief at the age you've turned. I've been wanting to call you eight for months now, and you've come so far from when you first turned 7.
This year you hit a number of milestones. Pretty quickly after your birthday last year we finally switched you to a full sized bed... something that was long overdue and really nice for all of us! Bedtime reading and snuggles are much easier now that we actually fit on your bed with you.
You also lost your first tooth halfway through the year, then pretty quickly afterwards your second tooth, a very exciting development for you! Ever since your cousin, Wyatt, lost his first tooth at Cape Cod, you had been waiting for your turn.
There are so many little things too, things that are harder to label or define... but you grasp emotions and concepts so much better then before. You take responsibility for things and want to be helpful (most of the time).
You also feel things incredibly strongly which can be hard for you, and us, to manage sometimes.
But what comes through most is how much you love your family. You love us with wild abandon, and crashing waves of affection.
You continue to be an amazing traveler, entertaining yourself in the car, helping with the tent, and loving all the new things you get to see.
You have a preference for caves and stone houses (New Mexico and Mesa Verde for example), but also absolutely love water in all its forms.
You love animals of all stripes, and have expressed the desire to learn to ride horses.
You are one of the coolest people I know, Gwen, and its been my constant mission to help you continue to always embrace your uniqueness. All the amazing little quirks that make you, you.
You are strong and flexible, you are soft and tough. Your blue eyes and killer smile light up a room!
You are dresses and long hair, and also Star Wars and LEGOs. You continue to be enthralled by Harry Potter, and really love all movies.
You've gotten braver this year, learning to trust your strength and face
your fears. At times though, you've also let your fears overcome you,
and I'm glad that you still find comfort just by having your Dad or
myself present in those moment.
You love new adventures, but also thrive on routine. Your favorite way to start the day is with a cartoon (or two) while you eat breakfast.
But load you up in the car and you're willing to forget all that for the chance to check out something new and amazing.
You've gotten better about trying new foods this year, but you definitely have favorites: tacos, steak, white rice, green beans, chicken nuggets, and french fries. And "junk" of course (any dessert type food!). Ice cream and Icees are especially loved.
This year you kept up with swim into the fall, your second full year of it, but then made the decision to take a break from it. You weren't enjoying it so much anymore, despite your continued love of water and swimming itself, the lessons just weren't fun for you. So we stopped.
But this winter you took up skiing with a passion! By only your second time on the slope you were zipping down the mountain better then I can.
I'm so glad that you and your Dad can share this special bond/activity!
Lately you've been sad, and it absolutely breaks my heart to type that. I know that during your life there are going to be many points of sadness, ups and downs and trials, because that's life... but its never not going to hurt my Mama heart to witness it.
I wish I could take away your pain, and put it all on me. Especially
because I've been there before. I've felt the hurt of thinking that I
have no friends, I've experienced the sting of thinking that I'm not
good enough. So let me tell you right here and now, your feels are
valid, you are allowed to feel them, and I will always be here to listen
to them.
That said, baby, you are so loved. I don't think you realize right
now just how your smile lights up a room, I don't think you know just
how strong and powerful you are, I don't think you know how much I
admire your fierce determination and drive (even when it drives me a
little crazy).
Sometimes people don't understand you when you have such a fire for
life, but please don't lose that! True friends will love and admire you
exactly as you are, and that fire will help you immensely as you grow.
And the other people, well its important to know that not everyone has
to like you! It is okay! You can't please everyone, baby, so the best
thing is to stay true to yourself.
I am so honored, lucky, blessed to have you call me Mama. I'm so proud that you are my girl.
Love you forever,
Mama