yes i'm a bitch

... but i'm not "on call". I'm not your bitch. I'm my own. I don't like to bear my own bad news, so why would i bear yours? Its a big deal to me for the same reason that its a big deal to you. That's all. I get frustrated because its not the first time you've asked me to do this for you, and i expressed my discomfort with it last time. We are friends, and you should respect that. If you are too uncomfortable to tell someone something for yourself, then its not something I want to be involved with or put in the middle of. The messanger is never just that. And if you are not too uncomfortable to tell them yourself, then it wouldn't be such a big deal when I say no.

Just had to get that out, and now it is done.
Fine.